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WHEN LOVE TURNS TOXIC Part 1

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Ladies everywhere we turn love song and movies tell us to follow our heart. If tha was such good advice, then why does love often hurt so much? The pain and confusion caused by emotional abuse, deceit, manipulation and control can be traumatizing. If you've suffered in destructive relationships, God longs to heal your heart. Have you ever been seduced by a manipulator? Tricked and deceived by flattery and charm only to later discover that the relationship was built on lies? It’s devastating when all of a sudden affirmation and attention turn into criticism, angry outbursts or silent treatment and other mind games. What does God’s Word say about all of this? What does the Bible say about manipulation and emotional abuse? So often when I want to find out what scripture says about a certain topic I do a word search in an online concordance. But neither the word manipulation or the phrase emotional abuse are not used in the Bible.That happens a lot. When words that are comm

BE OBESSED WITH SUCCESS

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Proverbs 16;3 Commit thy works unto the Lord and thy thoughts shall be established. Success is obedience to God, empowered by the spirit of God, motivated by love for God and directed toward the advancement of his kingdom. Most people think that they will get successful if the economy works or if they will win a lottery ticket. Your not going to be successful if you do not demand it, if you don't claim it and say this is mine. Success is your duty your Obligation and your responsibility. The brain is plastic that responds to change it responds to repetition and repetition is a slave to obsession. As Conor McGregor said, there's no talent here this is handwork this is an obsession.  Be obsessed with what you want to become a ranging fire, build your obsession it needs your time and attention. people need to know you for one major thing. He works. He produces. The guy is there everyday. He's pushing it harder.      Because no matter how good your ideas are, how your odds are

LOVE & DATING. #THE REAL THING

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✓How did you cope up? ✓What have your experiences of Dating been? ✓How can you be more God-pleasing when you relate to the opposite sex? LISTEN; There's a difference between being IN LOVE and real love. Being in love {having string romantic feelings for someone} is wonderful. The problem is that we confuse it with REAL LOVE.  Do you know the difference? IN LOVE- Focuses on our own happiness, REAL LOVE- Focuses on the well-being of the other person. IN LOVE- Craves immediate satisfaction. REAL LOVE- Is patient and willing to sacrifice. IN LOVE- Wants pleasure and intensity. REAL LOVE- Seeks to grow in trust and Friendship. IN LOVE- Is a feeling, REAL LOVE is an act of the will. Anyone can be IN LOVE; but only a person who is emotionally And spiritually mature can really love. LEARN; ✓GOD IS LOVE ✓We should think again about how we go about dating.              # You don't need someone to be someone. #SpreadTheGoodVibe. #InspireYouth. #AJtheBoss99%